EEEEEEe-Baaaaaay!
Okay. So I'm getting the hang of eBay-ing now after about 6 months of selling. I am having fun doing it weekly, and earning myself a bit of spending cash. I have always been one of those people that feels useless not working. I don't consider being a mom a job, that's just something I feel is a part of who I am and a part of my life.
To me a job = a way that I earn money. So I feel a little bit at peace now, having a little at home "job", where I can actually call it work by my own definition. I have worked since I turned 16, so not having a job to go to and being a stay at home mom, sometimes I felt like I wasn't doing anything, even though I take care of the house and kids and all that it entails.
Oddly I feel less stressed with the additional things to do. I know I'm very lucky to even be able to be a SAHM these days, with the economy the way it is. I guess it was just an internal struggle for me, I love to work, but I didn't want to send my kids off to daycare to be raised by a stranger for most of the days either. Now I think I've found my perfect balance, while homeschooling, I am able to pop over 3 ft away to my computer to type up some descriptions and upload a photo and walk right back. Plus with all the technology now, I can even be outside playing with the kids and still be able to function on my business end to answer questions. It's pretty great.
I think I'm on the track to getting back a bit of the old me, before kids. I have more free time since the kids are older, and they can even help sometimes, it's become a bit of the financial portion of homeschooling, how money is earned, and that it takes work to earn a dollar, but then after you have earned it you can spend it if you'd like. I think the eBay-ing portion that my kids help take part in ties in all sorts of things. I prefer to take real world things into the way that I teach, I hate worksheets myself, so why not be hands on?
I think we have all or more than a standard school does in our home. There's so many different ways to learn. While the kids cook with me, we learn fractions from the measurements and conversions. How many 3 and 6 year olds are able to do that already? The only thing I would say is missing is probably the social aspect of being around other children their age, but I think that it's actually better without to a point, they learn to interact with adults at a younger age and I think it results in proper conversational learning earlier. We even have hamsters in the house like a classroom. Granted, they are our little pets/family members, but they serve the same purpose that they do in a standard classroom. To respect animals and learn to care for another living being.
All in all, I've enjoying my days more lately, for some reason, adding on the eBay work has somehow given me more time to spare. Odd? I think I've just learned how to become more efficient with my time with the addition of eBay. So that I CAN get it all done everyday!
Okay. So I'm getting the hang of eBay-ing now after about 6 months of selling. I am having fun doing it weekly, and earning myself a bit of spending cash. I have always been one of those people that feels useless not working. I don't consider being a mom a job, that's just something I feel is a part of who I am and a part of my life.
To me a job = a way that I earn money. So I feel a little bit at peace now, having a little at home "job", where I can actually call it work by my own definition. I have worked since I turned 16, so not having a job to go to and being a stay at home mom, sometimes I felt like I wasn't doing anything, even though I take care of the house and kids and all that it entails.
Oddly I feel less stressed with the additional things to do. I know I'm very lucky to even be able to be a SAHM these days, with the economy the way it is. I guess it was just an internal struggle for me, I love to work, but I didn't want to send my kids off to daycare to be raised by a stranger for most of the days either. Now I think I've found my perfect balance, while homeschooling, I am able to pop over 3 ft away to my computer to type up some descriptions and upload a photo and walk right back. Plus with all the technology now, I can even be outside playing with the kids and still be able to function on my business end to answer questions. It's pretty great.
I think I'm on the track to getting back a bit of the old me, before kids. I have more free time since the kids are older, and they can even help sometimes, it's become a bit of the financial portion of homeschooling, how money is earned, and that it takes work to earn a dollar, but then after you have earned it you can spend it if you'd like. I think the eBay-ing portion that my kids help take part in ties in all sorts of things. I prefer to take real world things into the way that I teach, I hate worksheets myself, so why not be hands on?
I think we have all or more than a standard school does in our home. There's so many different ways to learn. While the kids cook with me, we learn fractions from the measurements and conversions. How many 3 and 6 year olds are able to do that already? The only thing I would say is missing is probably the social aspect of being around other children their age, but I think that it's actually better without to a point, they learn to interact with adults at a younger age and I think it results in proper conversational learning earlier. We even have hamsters in the house like a classroom. Granted, they are our little pets/family members, but they serve the same purpose that they do in a standard classroom. To respect animals and learn to care for another living being.
All in all, I've enjoying my days more lately, for some reason, adding on the eBay work has somehow given me more time to spare. Odd? I think I've just learned how to become more efficient with my time with the addition of eBay. So that I CAN get it all done everyday!